Past few days, our life changed dramatically. Both of us have been trying our best to get our qualifications up to prepare ourselves to support each other. Since our first date, we both knew we are in a relationship for along run and…at this point since he will be changing job soon, I have a stable job that I am planing to stay for a while and he’s future is unsure. So our role had kind of switched. In the past, I had been the one who had been working part time and trying to manage working and studying so both of us have been trying hard to balance this new life and it has been hard because both of us feel little unstable of not knowing when we will be able to get married or live together. I guess some people may say that we had rushed into getting engaged when we are not fully prepared but for M and I, because we are engaged we are more motivated and we feel stable. We both know that we will together forever eventually.