Relationship with M is quite different from any other relationship I had in the past. With M, I don’t have to worry about him not understanding me or misjudging me. For the first time, I can tell him how I feel … I don’t have to worry about telling him that I don’t like what he like. I guess that’s one of the main reason it is working out with us. He can tell me that he doesn’t like what I like and I can tell him that I don’t like what he likes. Both of us feel comfortable to the point that we can say the truth to each other. We don’t have to pretend like we are something else in front of each other. I am glad I had met someone who can make me feel this way. Past relationship made me feel like I had to change… I had to change what music I like… the food I like… my body sizes… and all the choices had to be altered to fit partner’s lead. I must say for the firs time in my life, I feel like I can be myself.