Maybe it is our thing but every month when it is close to the end on the month, we both open up our journal and we set a day to see each other. Usually we make plan for a whole month in advance so M can reserve the day for his days off from work . It works out great for us that way because we know for sure that we meet at least once a week. Usually, we end up meeting up twice or so in a week and for us it is working great.
Couple of people had asked us how we can continue to talk on the phone everyday and text and why we do not get tired of each other… to be honest our conversation is usually the same thing over and over again. How was your day …. I love you … good night.. usual phrases but for us it is working out great because we both get worried when we do not hear from each other and we both like to hear I love yous so it works.
Maybe our relationship is working out because we live about an hour and half away car ride away from each other and we know for sure that we will meet up every week. I guess it is our personality that feel comfortable having plans in advance that help us get through few days without each other. We had been doing planing one month plan in advance from the first month… but so far that’s how we roll and planing dates like that works out great for our relationship.